How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Why can't the ISS take a picture of Earth and prove to the Flat Earth Society that Earth is not really flat?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Ask yourself:

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How could Trump, with his deplorable garbage supporters, manage to win an election?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Do not set goals—set systems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why is every human messed up in some way?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Making more friends is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Procrastinates a lot.

What should I do if I love a girl and she apparently doesn't love me?

That's it for today.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What should I do if I love someone who does not love me?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

What I need from you?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.